I
thought I was doing everything I was supposed to. I had a personal
history of asthma and a strong family history of allergies to pollen
and dust. I knew breastfeeding offered protection against these.
So I breastfed and I enjoyed it immensely. What could be more satisfying
than watching my child grow and know that I was making it happen
with the milk my body made? Around two months of age my son began
to develop eczema and cradle cap, pretty typical problems. They
kept getting worse though, and eventually my pediatrician sent us
to a dermatologist who suggested some creams. I asked if he thought
it would help for me to try some exclusion diets. He said, "There's
no proof that those help, just keep doing what you're doing." We
didn't know it for several months, but in my son's case, he was
wrong. Around seven months we gave my son a teething biscuit for
the first time as he sat in his high chair while we had dinner.
After a few minutes we noticed the baby's bottom lip was starting
to swell. We wound up spending the rest of the evening in the emergency
room, as they treated his allergic reaction. Soon after, in the
allergist's office, we learned that he was allergic to milk, eggs,
soy, peanut, tree nuts, sesame, beef, and pork. It the milk in the
biscuit that set off the reaction that prompted his diagnosis. I
immediately began eliminating all of those foods from his diet,
most of which he had never had anyway. I also had to strictly eliminate
them from my diet since I was still nursing. At the time, this was
a daunting task - endless label reading, coming up with all new
meals to cook and eat, fear that I'd given him or myself something
bad, and craving ice cream in the heat of summer.
His
skin rashes started to improve, but I still felt so sad, like I
should have known earlier and been avoiding those foods all along.
I felt so inadequate as a pediatrician and a mother, that I couldn't
protect my baby from this suffering. I was able to keep up with
all the exclusions for a couple of months before I weaned my son.
Now
he is two and when we avoid all of the things he is allergic to
he doesn't have a speck of eczema on him. He's even starting to
outgrow some of his allergies, which is what generally happens.
We keep epi-pens, injectable medication for allergic reactions,
around the house and with us all the time. We're still endlessly
reading labels and doing creative cooking exercises. I'm pregnant
again, and this time I'm doing things a little differently. I'm
avoiding all nuts while I'm pregnant and when I start nursing I'll
go on a strict exclusion diet, eliminating the major allergens.
It won't be fun and I'm sure I'll still miss the ice cream. This
time it won't be so intimidating since we already have a repertoire
of recipes that are "allergen-free" and we won't be in shock and
full of sadness.
This
approach isn't for everyone, but if you have a family history of
allergies, even if they aren't food allergies, or if your child
is showing signs of allergy like eczema, wheezing or gastrointestinal
problems, talk to your doctor or consult an allergist about eliminating
certain foods while pregnant or nursing. Don't do these exclusions
without the guidance of a nutritionist.